May 25, 2014

Sights from Service - Saving the Best for Last

The funnest things we see are out in the ministry.  So here's some highlights - all from service (January-May 2014)


But first a few highlights of This Year's Story:

We start with a bit of difficulties, but wait Jehovah comes through!

Last summer was the worst ever for secular work.  It's normal to have some clients fall away but 70% of Dane's clients or jobs fell through - which has NEVER happened in the past.  We prayed and studied and talked with experienced ones.  At first it looked like we only had enough to get down to Mexico and stay for about 5 months.  In the spirit of Matthew 6:33 we decided to go, until the money ran out - even if that wasn't for very long.  Then when we got there Dane's wallet was lost with our important Mexico Resident cards.  It looked like another month's worth of income was gone!  The last blow was Dane had a client set up to do monthly computer work and repair remotely but that fell through too!  We were SO discouraged.  We wondered if we were hearing Jehovah's will correctly.

But then good news came!

First we reworked our budget several times.  Then we paired down our budget to the bare minimum.

Then Dane's wallet was found!  If you missed that story it's a good one - BLOG POST: http://daneandemilyadventures.blogspot.com/2013/12/back-in-mexico-again-this-makes-3-years.html

Then Dane was offered one day a month of online work.  IF NOTHING went wrong we figured we should have just enough to stay for the whole 8 months!!!  We knew it would be tight and there would be things we couldn't afford but we were so grateful that we'd get to be in our assignment for the full time.

And then..... A treat!

We had been in Mexico for 3 years and hadn't been able to see any of that fascinating country.  We had the opportunity to take a small road trip but didn't know how we would pay for it.  I was telling my Mom our predicament and she helped us out!  It was such a delight to go to Mexico City and the Central American Bethel Branch.  Thanks Again Mama!!!

 We were able to complete our 8 months and get over 90% of our service time in Manzanillo and its all thanks to Jehovah.

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Serving Where The Need is Greater.  But not the Greatest.

There were many challenges for us coming down here for this service year.  When we were in Portland last summer we were hearing some discouraging reports about serving in Mexico.  By word of mouth and we had received an email that had been circulating that sounded like there was no need to serve in Mexico.  After everything we'd gone through to get back down there it was discouraging to keep hearing that.  Well we're glad to be able to give positive updates to that.

There have been a LOT of changes in Mexico English over the past two years. Change can be difficult and sometimes confusing.  Some of the changes have been in what actually is our territory to preach to.  

When we first arrived back to Manzanillo last fall we immediately asked for updates from one of our elders.  He confirmed that a lot of changes had happened over the summer and everyone was adjusting to them.  It was nice to hear that a lot of new studies were coming out of our newly defined territory and that the congregation was feeling positive about the new service year.  

Over the months we had more refinements and adjustments from the branch in understanding our territory.

Toward the end of our time there it was nice to have the branch confirm that there is a need in English there.  At the Circuit Assembly there was a letter read from the Branch.  They apologized for the misunderstanding and expressed their appreciation for the work that is being done in English.  They gave several great experiences that had happened in our circuit in English over the past 6 months. 

They also said at the Circuit Assembly that while the need is greater in Mexico English it is not always the greatest need.   They have been having a hard time getting enough people to stay long term in Indigenous languages and rustic, remote Central American territories.  So if you feel up to learning an indigenous Mexican language like Nahuatl, Purepecha,... or try a remote, rustic area in Central America there is a need for long term support in those areas.   It also has been a real challenge in Manzanillo for people to stay long term.  It's weird for Dane and I to already be considered "long timers" after just 3 and a half years.

One of the things that helps us feel good about serving in this territory is a sports illustration someone gave.  Apparently there is something called an "assist" where you don't make the goal but you set it up so that your teammate can.  That well describes what we do.  Our numbers never look great. A major reason for that is a lot of our territory are Mexicans that have moved down after decades of living in the States.  Most of those end up moving back to the States if they are able to.  So we have a window to develop interest and then hope they continue.  Another very common situation is that we study with one or more members of a family where the children or spouse are not fluent in English.  When they have progressed to the point of becoming publishers or baptism they move to Spanish for the spirituality of their family.  This service year we had 3 women get baptized or become unbaptized publishers - but they took those steps right as they switched over to Spanish.  So we just try to keep in mind that everything is for the brotherhood as a whole and feel blessed that we get to have many neat experiences in the ministry.  It's a privilege that we are able to be a part of people's spiritual journey.


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We had lots of fun service partners this year.  We mentioned the Payne Clan in the last blog. Here they are again!

 
 
 
 We also had many fun times with Chris's mom Janet who was with us for 6 months.  And of course Rosie one of our newlyweds (Eric's wife).
 
At the public witnessing table Dane started a study with a man.  He came back on another day and they studied in the park.

Here Laura is studying with a street performer.

Recently we started doing two public witnessing tables - one is now English only.

Jordynn had more ideas for our witnessing

It was a treat to be with Jordynn the first time she did witnessing late in the evening - we try to stay out until 8pm or sometimes 9pm two evenings a week because it is so common for men to work until late. 

For me one of the highlights of my time here this past year has been studying and spending time with my dear Paulina.

 
When one of the sisters in our congregation was sick Paulina, Naiya (Paulina's new buddy in the hall) and I had fun making cards for her.  The pics below are Paulina's creations:

 Paulina came up with the idea of making it a pop-up

 
 
She's such a funny, bright, lovable kid.  She's been doing a great job studying a head for her studies and comes regularly to Sunday meetings.  And she has started answering at meetings recently.

Sometimes we get treats in the ministry.  This was given to us when we were doing public witnessing. (It's made from palm fronds)
 
Here's Tristan, Chris and Mason

One day Paulina's Grandmother made lunch for our car group - Dane and I, Harold and Sureyma - we enjoyed spending time with them this last year and the one before when they visited for a couple of months.


A lot of the fun sights we see while we're in Mexico is in service.  The next group of pics were all taken out in service.

Horses and cows are sometimes seen wandering around neighborhoods - without supervision or possibly even an owner.
 
This cow was very well behaved - he stayed on the sidewalk the whole way
 


This man was guiding his goats home in the evening through their neighborhood

 
 
 Sometimes we take a break and watch the sunset

Often we hear a noise or rustling above us and see if we can find out what it is



This is the biggest iguana we've seen in the wild.  The coconut below him is about a foot long so we guessed  he was around 4 feet from head to tail.

This dog found a smart way to cool off





 

Above pic courtesy of Tristan Payne.

 A lot of hotels and homes were so damaged by an earthquake years ago they've been abandoned for years.  Sometimes we go exploring...

 
 
 
 
 Wait, is that an elephant walking down the road???
When we saw this we screeched to the side of the road and jumped out.  Maddie is in front of the elephant in this one.
 
 Avery walking back...  You never know what you're going to see when you head out in the morning.



BREAK TIME
When we need to take a few minutes to rest...
 
Or sometimes we'll make iced coffees at our house while our companions take a rest in the hammock

Ruben gives us the 411 - in style...
 
There are limitless roadside treats.  We often stop for fresh cut up fruit or veggies.  This woman is making us "Raspados" - Mexican shave ice with flavors - my favorite is the real guava fruit syrup.

And of course tacos.  These are called "Pastor".  It's fire roasted pork, seasoned, with shavings of warmed pineapple

And then we all conk out


With that we'll give our blog a bit of a rest too.  We're working hard and look forward to returning South in the fall.  We wish all of you a GREAT summer and would love to hear a little note about how your last year went!

Much Agape,
Emily and Dane

May 1, 2014

Special Meeting with Brother Losche and Other Spiritual Events

Fun with Friends

Goodbye Party for Dennis and Patricia Lewis.  They were able to be in Manzanillo for quite a long time - 4 1/2 years.  They were such pillars.  They left a big hole in our congregation.

Rosie is so sweet with the little ones.

We had so many fun visitors this time!!!  Tim, Tracie (in the pink) and Cassie (young sister in the tan sweater) - a fun and lively family that we got to spend many fun times in service with.

We had a great time taking different ones to our favorite places.  On our Colima tour the volcano was erupting (as you can see by the smoke on the side - at night you could see the red lava).



When we all went to Barra de Navidad we got to see Mexicans fishing.  It makes me think of what it must have been like in bible times.


From the left is Cassie and from the "Payne Clan" - Tristen, Ainsley, Jordynn and Taylor.  All very thoughtful and warm hearted young people and all of them spent long days in the ministry with us.  What troopers!!!


El Salto


Here's a pic with Jordynn.  We enjoy all of our visitors but some of them we just immediately connect with.  Jordynn, her sweet sister Taylor and their delightful friend Avery are such neat sisters. Because we got to spend so much time with them for a couple of months we were able to really get to know them.



Here we are "attending" Evan's wedding.  It's the first wedding we've gone to over Skype.  Not the same as being there but very nice to feel included a little in their special day.

George and Donna Payne have visited before.  With their 50th Anniversary coming up a lot of their family came down to join them for this special moment.  The whole "Payne Clan" is so delightful!  Very warm and open hearted.  We got to spend time with a lot of them out in service and having adventures.  (They were with us for all of the day trips in the pics above)  We wished they all could move down!!!

Man, how did we score such a fun group???


Avery taught me to make a Canadian treat - Nanaimo Bars.

While we were baking the guys played games.  Ruben - who was living with us at the time, it was great to have him. He is now assigned to our Congregation. Also at the table: Mike, Jordan and the back of Eric's head.

Then it was time to take Jordynn and Taylor back to the airport...  :-(  We weren't ready for them to go.  We felt the same every time we took some of the "Payne Clan" to the airport.

Our rooftop with Rob and Lydia before they left to work in the states for the summer.

The Payne Clan got a fishing trip together

We head out early so everyone is sleepy


But worth it!  So beautiful in the morning light.

Then all the sudden lines are buzzing

At one point we had 7 lines going at the same time!

Then time for Dane and Eric to chill

Yay!!!  A new friend for Paulina!  A really sweet new family moved in a couple of months ago.  Mom and Dad are Andy and Sonya and their daughter Naiya is a real delight.  Very spiritual and mature for her age and very fun.  She and Paulina hit it off right away.  I was so thrilled because we don't have anyone else her age in the hall.

Paulina rode a horse for the first time.
 
A few sights from around our house.
 I cannot grow tomatoes here for anything - but this papaya tree started all by itself!

Birds enjoyed this one before we did

Mexico is getting more expensive (gas is now $4 a gallon countrywide) but some things are still a great deal.  Trucks come by with whatever is in season - limited varieties but we got this whole pile for $5

Our side yard is a sort of cat sanctuary.  Every year we get a new batch of kittens.  Adorable!  And they take care of mice - and even cockroaches.

For two short weeks the Primavera tree brightens up Manzanillo.  This one is next to our house.

 This crazy looking fruit is "Guanabana".  It has bright white flesh and ebony seeds.  The flavor is a bit intense but it makes awesome "agua fresca" (pureed fruit in water).
 
Dried peppers

Dee's brother visited from Argentina.  He gave an encouraging talk updating us on the Assembly Hall project they've been working on.

With a lot of slides to help us imagine it...

Everyone had a good time doing a deep clean on the hall before the memorial.   Paulina was a great helper.  She's such a good girl.  What a treat to get to study with her.  She's my dessert.

It was wonderful to have studies and visitors join us for this special night.  These two adorable girls are the daughters of one of Laura's studies.

And her husband Mike made such a sweet papa for the evening.

Holly's studies are on each side of her and Avery on the right.

Some of us girls

Some of us went to the beach to see the lunar eclipse afterwards

We get a number of unique situations in Mexico English - here Carissa is translating for a man who only learned American Sign Language

 We eagerly anticipated the special meeting with Brother Losche.

The brothers arranged to have the meeting piped into someone's home so we could have it translated into English.  In the back you can see Ruben translating for us.

Even though we couldn't hear his words directly it was a joy to watch his warm expressions

Guadalajara for our Circuit Assembly
 
 

We had fun showing the Payne boys - Tristan and Mason around
 
Wait...what?  Mason was intriqued

There are a lot of street performers and artists.  This woman works with spray paints

And then to seal it...


Mike and Laura stayed with this sister - she introduced us to a really fun bistro in a neighborhood that reminded us SO much of Portland.  Even the vendors were selling fun crafts that I would have found at Portland's Saturday Market.
At our Pioneer Day - here's the group of pioneers we spent this service year with.
 
Cool idea
 
So many fun times with Mike and Laura!!!  It was hard to say "See you Again" at the end of the Assembly.  They left with Rob and Lydia from Guadalajara.  We missed them as soon as they left.

More sad good-byes.  We had Carissa and Paris with us for 6 months and Maddy for 4.  All very zealous and fun young sisters.

Grecko did a great job on his first talk.  And we loved seeing the use they got out of this old Coke crate
 
It took crazy long for us to get these pics up.  But we have one more post to go for this trip!  We'll try to get it up right away.  We see our funnest sights in service so we saved that post for just the things we saw while in the ministry.  Stay tuned!

Love Em and Dane